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Memory Do you remember that golden childhood spent with your brothers and sisters, when someone else used to make mistakes and someone else used to get scolded. We used to eat our own share of chocolates, but also used to steal our sister’s chocolates kept in the fridge. When the sister asked for a glass of water, the return reply was, ‘Why don’t you go and get it yourself.’ But when it came to saving ourselves from father’s scolding, it was my sister who always saved us.
Such a unique relationship can only exist between brother and sister, where it seems difficult to live with each other, but one cannot live without each other. Actually, this relationship is not dependent on any special day. But just as a special day has been chosen for other relationships, Rakshabandhan is also celebrated for brothers and sisters. There is also another day, which is made for this relationship and that is – Bhai Dooj.
Bhai Dooj is a festival which promotes love and affection between brother and sister. It is also called Bhaubij, Bhaiya Dooj or Bhai Tika. It is a time when brothers and sisters come together to celebrate their love, respect and dedication for each other.
Sisters apply tilak on the forehead of their brothers and pray for their well-being. In return the brothers bless their sisters and promise to protect them throughout their lives.
Tomorrow is Bhai Dooj and on this occasion relationship We will talk about brother-sister love in the column. We will also learn how brothers and sisters can rekindle their childhood memories and deepen their relationship.
Brother-sister relationship is sweet and sour
The relationship between brother and sister is full of bitter and sweet disputes. This relationship starts from childhood and lasts throughout life. This relationship includes love, affection, jokes, bickering and support. No matter how much brother and sister tease each other, if someone else even thinks of doing so, they fight. Really, the brother-sister relationship is very unique.
There is no better friend than a brother or sister
From childhood till adulthood, brothers and sisters share all their happiness and sorrow together. In childhood, those who used to become each other’s enemies due to their disobedience, as they grow up, sometimes become crime partners and sometimes friends.
Protecting from father’s scolding, hiding something from mother, eating ice cream together secretly at night and waiting as a guard at the door when he comes home late. Only brothers and sisters can do all this for each other.
History also bears witness to the unbreakable bond between brother and sister.
- Relationship between Subhadra and Krishna
Lord Krishna and Balram’s sister Subhadra have special mention in Hindu mythology. Krishna has been protective towards Subhadra. Krishna went against the family and helped Subhadra in her marriage with Arjun. This story of Krishna and Subhadra shows how far a brother can go to protect his sister and ensure her happiness.
- Relationship between Yamuna and Yamraj
There is a unique relationship between Yamraj and Yamuna. According to mythology, on this day Yamraj comes to meet his sister Yamuna and she prays for his well-being. Their story symbolizes the protective aspect of brother-sister relationships.
- Ram and Shanta’s relationship
In Ramayana, the relationship between Lord Ram and his elder sister Shanta is also very deep. Shanta was the daughter of King Dasharatha and Queen Kaushalya and was adopted by King Romapada. Ayodhya became prosperous after Shanta’s marriage with Rishyasringa, after which Shri Ram and his brothers were born. Their story reflects strong family bonds and the sacrifices brothers and sisters make for each other.
Reunite your broken relationship on Bhai Dooj
Bhai Dooj is a special occasion when brothers and sisters can strengthen their relationship. If you are separated from your brother or sister for some reason or are angry on something and are not talking, then give your relationship a chance again this Bhai Dooj. Below are some pointers that can help you reconnect your relationship with your brother or sister-
- Take initiative- On Bhai Dooj, take initiative and call or message your brother or sister. Tell them how much you love them even today.
- Apologize- Apologizing does not make anything big or small. If you are at fault, apologize and try to improve your relationship.
- Start a conversation- Start a conversation with your brother or sister and try to understand them. Try to forget what happened before and propose a solution.
- Relive the memories- Relive your childhood memories and remember the moments when both of you were together. Don’t let the distance that has come between you two after growing up come in the way of your relationship.
- Give a gift- Give your brother or sister a small gift that shows your love and respect.
By adopting these suggestions, you can strengthen the relationship with your brother-sister and make Bhai Dooj a memorable moment.
