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Bollywood actress Tamannaah Bhatia is one such actress who does not hesitate to talk openly about her relationship status. Known for her talent and open-mindedness, Tamannaah spoke about love and personal life in a recent interview.
Talking about the ups and downs in new relationships, Tamannaah says that the problems you see in the initial stages of any relationship will remain forever if they are not resolved in time. Talking about her past experience, she suggested that one should not give too much in any relationship. This is a kind of ‘toxic positivity’. Such red flags create cracks in relationships.
So today’Relationship‘ We will talk about the red flags of relationships. Also, we will know what are those habits that we should not ignore when a new relationship is being formed or it is in its initial stage. Also, we will know that-
- How to identify red flags in a relationship
- How to make a new relationship stronger
What do red flags mean in relationships
Red flags in relationships mean the signs that can lead to bitterness in the relationship. You may have a fight with your partner, which can also end the relationship. This red flag indicates uncomfortable behavior of the partner, such as lack of love and respect, doubt, interference, etc.
Talking about Generation-Z youth, they also count red and green flags in a relationship. Green flags indicate a healthy relationship, while red flags can increase the chances of conflict between couples.
How to identify red flags in a new relationship
It is natural to have some ups and downs in any relationship. That means quarreling over something, getting upset with the partner over something. But if the situation is such that there is a communication gap between the partners, the partners are not able to express their views openly, then this is a red flag.
For example, your partner is not showing as much interest in you as you are showing in him/her. You share something with him/her and he/she ignores it. Sometimes it happens that you want your partner’s moral support in difficult times, but he/she is not there at that time.
There are many such red flags which can create a rift in the relationship.
The most important thing in a relationship is to respect each other’s opinions
Mutual respect is the most important thing in a relationship. If this is not there, it does not take long for the relationship to deteriorate. Respecting each other’s thoughts is an important component of any healthy relationship. When both partners feel respect for each other, they are able to openly share their thoughts and feelings with each other, which strengthens the relationship.
In such a situation, the chances of misunderstandings and conflicts can be reduced because both the partners feel comfortable in expressing their needs and desires.
How to avoid red flags in relationships
Actress Tamannaah Bhatia suggests to strengthen the relationship that first of all the partner should be a good listener. Instead of putting your side in every fight in the relationship, it is better to try to show sympathy towards your partner. You need to know about your partner’s problems and desires. When you tell them that you really care for them a lot, then this can strengthen the relationship.
Do not try to change your partner
Often in a relationship, partners try to improve each other by finding faults in each other. They want to change their partner. They want to mold their partner according to their terms and conditions. In the language of psychology, this is called parentification. That is, in romantic relationships, one partner becomes a child and the other partner becomes a parent. However, such a practice can prove to be dangerous for the relationship. So avoid doing this.
Say thank you to your partner, the depth of your relationship will increase
According to America’s famous psychiatrist Emily H. Sanders, the more love you have, the more you will feel it. But when you express it to your partner, show love, then your partner will return it in a better way, will show more love. This will continue and the relationship bonding will get stronger. Emily says that showing love and saying thank you in love is the lifeblood of a healthy relationship.
Maintain better communication, understand your partner’s thoughts
If you don’t have to put in much effort to express yourself, then this is a sign of better communication. In such a situation, there is no communication gap between the partners. It is important to note here that when the communication gap is eliminated, the partners do not hesitate to say bitter things to each other.
However, it is also a fact that the relationship of those partners who are vocal about their thoughts and needs in their mutual relationship is stronger and sweeter.
Give each other personal space
Lack of privacy in a relationship can make your partner irritable towards you. It is not good to interfere in everything of your partner unnecessarily. This can also create a feeling of suspicion.
There should be no ups and downs in the relationship, there should be no conflict, there should be happiness in the relationship all the time, this usually does not happen. So if there are red flags in the relationship, then remove them and work on the green flags.
